As we are growing up, we have a tend to either ignore or
tune out the stories and experiences of our parents. We think their ideas are so old fashioned, or
that their experiences do not impact on our lives, little realizing that their
stories and memories are in reality subtle learning tools for us to lead better
lives. Later, when they are old and we
have families and real lives of our own, we sometimes ask them about some
memory or story they mentioned years ago, but with failing memories or sadness
caused by those stories, they may be reluctant to dredge them up. We then are sad and realize that experiences
in their lives will be lost forever and that someday, we shall be like them,
trying to remember the good and trying to keep their sorrows and mistakes
buried.